Dear Elise Sutton:
submissive men seem to be attracted by a woman who shows up even a little cruel and abusive. When should a woman be cruel and when it should be shown as a Loving Parent? Can you explain the differences between them?
Response Elise Sutton:
The best way to respond to your question is to see the female domination relationship from two perspectives: the overall picture and the different frames that together form the overall picture .
The male need a Loving Female Authority is the overall motivation and, therefore, we can identify with that image set. How this need with such deep roots in men made it to express itself and needs all the aspects of nature and female nature.
At first glance, submissive man is attracted by the outward manifestations of the dominant woman. Women who act in a bossy, aggressive, stubborn and without admitting nonsense is sending a signal that in fact this term is dominant and attracts and excites the male submissive, especially in the sexual.
Similarly, for some submissive men, the image of the woman who is cruel and abusive attracts them because they see it as representing the domination and authority. Les sexually aroused because this outward manifestation of domination they said that the woman inside is full of Domination and Power.
This does not mean that people cease to crave and need love, but this is the other side of the coin. Men need love for your emotional health and social stability, but these traits are rarely any sexual involvement and do not forget that sex is what is in front of the male mind.
This dynamic is not unlike the basic mechanism of sexual attraction to men Women have to. A woman wearing a sexy set and let your body do something to attract and excite the majority of men. Men do not see beyond the sexual aspect of Women and, at the time of sexual excitement, the least they care about is if the woman is sweet and affectionate. All they know is under their power and are attracted to it by the sexual power that radiates.
With the meek man, a woman who shows her dominant personality has the same effect as the women who express their sexuality. The submissive man is attracted by two forces: the sexual and dominant.
If you had a room full of men, each on a different level in the development of their submissive nature, and a Dominant Woman entered the room and connected with them, each man's perceived differently depending on the strength of submissive desires of each.
If a woman came into the room dressed in a suit conservative style, all men would repair it, simply because they are women, but how they would respond would depend on the external image that she gave them and the nature within each one of them.
If this woman had to ask something, say something you do not want to do, and do it with gentleness and meekness, some men ignore and others take into consideration what I needed but being reluctant.
Now if this same woman came into the room radiating sexuality with a dress to highlight their attributes Women, all men lose their heads to help. The sexual instinct dominates the logical reasoning in the male mind and men respond to this woman unable to resist his sexual energy.
course now we're taking a step further. If this same woman came into the room with his conservative business suit, but instead of asking what they need with obedience and humility, he did by ordering in an aggressive tone, submissive men in the room would feel excited and have the same response to her sex in the previous case, had all.
Men who have a weak submissive desires have been offended by his acting, but those who have a strong submissive desires have felt sexually aroused and thus, had responded positively to their ways . Externally
submissive man wants to be dominated by a cruel woman. Internally want them both, both the Loving Parent to Parent as Cruel. It's just that sexual instincts and desires de sumisión lo
vencen y por eso se siente atraido de forma externa
por la Dominante Cruel en un principio.
Sin embargo, la Mujer es multi dimensional y su naturaleza
tiene muchos rasgos. De la misma forma que el matrimonio
es más que sexo, la relación de Dominación Femenina también
es más que ese rasgo de Dominante Cruel. Una relación sana
debe construirse sobre la amistad y la compatibilidad. El
sumiso debe conocer y apreciar todos los rasgos de la Mujer.
El hombre que sólo ve la Dominante Cruel no está equilibrado
y no entiende de verdad la naturaleza Femenina. El hombre
sumiso necesita adorar a la Mujer en toda su gloria,
necesita disfrutar de todas las caracteristicas and appreciate the virtues of Women for only then may become a servant to value for Women. Submissive man should know to serve Women.
submissive man needs the Parent Cruel to discipline and keep it off, but you also need to Loving Parent to feel loved. It is the totality of the feminine nature that makes man feel made submissive. Loving Female Authority needs both dominant.
Smart Women use their sexuality and the external manifestations of Domination to attract and capture the man through his submissive sexual instinct and submissive nature, but to a lasting and meaningful relationship, there must be also a social and intellectual support.
on when you should be sweet and when you should be hard is something that depends on the relationship they are all different. Depends on how you want to express yourself with your submissive and how he responds better. It comes down to know you better and know better to it.
Do you enjoy expressing your Domination Cruel to be a Parent? Does it respond better your submissive to a cruel or loving Domination? Most likely, the woman expresses both because it is their nature and it's good because the man needs them both. If right motivation is present, everything is Loving Female Authority and Loving Discipline.
The Cruel Dominant Women may be the dominant nature expressing more intense and aggressive but submissive man needs it and is attracted. Therefore, be a Parent Cruel, regardless of severity, may indeed be an act of love for the woman gives the man what you need to be made in his submission.
